Never Is An Awfully Long Time

Never is a long time when you stop to think about it.  Everyone likes to say that forever is a long time, but trust me when I tell you that never is much longer. As many of you know, my grandfather was diagnosed with terminal cancer last year.  He lived more than double the average length of time for his type of cancer and in that time, he did nothing to show that he had any interest in having a relationship with me. Some of you may well remember my Dear Grandpa post.   Well, the time has come and gone.  My grandfather passed away and even on his deathbed, he ignored me.  While I sat, holding his had, so swollen from his kidneys and liver shutting down, he spoke to my husband.  He asked how he was, how his job was going, how life was going and was pleased with Continue reading